Back to Student StoriesHow to Convince Your Parents to Let You Go to the »ÆÉ«µçÓ°
What I did to make sure I came to the »ÆÉ«µçÓ°
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This time of year is time for high school seniors to make big choices. College admissions are coming out, and sometimes your dream school isn’t the same as your family’s.Ìý
Making the choice to attend the »ÆÉ«µçÓ° is a huge decision – especially if you’ll be an out of state student – but the benefits outweigh the negatives. Here’s how to convince your family that becoming a Wildcat is the best choice for your future.Ìý
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»ÆÉ«µçÓ° Malia Daft
Class of 2025
Major: Communication
Minor(s): Marketing
Hometown: San Diego, California
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Why I Chose »ÆÉ«µçÓ°Ìý
Hi, my name’s Malia! I’m a sophomore at the »ÆÉ«µçÓ°, hailing from my hometown of San Diego, California.Ìý
I felt a lot of pressure to stay nearby; it was cheaper, closer for my parents to visit, and California is known to have really good schools. Plus, I come from a big family. As the first kid in my family to want to leave my home state of California, going out of state was scary to my parents – how would they afford college when they have six other kids to think about as well?Ìý
While these were legitimate concerns, my heart was drawn to what I had seen of the »ÆÉ«µçÓ° – from the green grass on the mall to the red brick buildings, and let’s not forget the great weather year round.ÌýÌý
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How I Convinced My Family
My parents were concerned when I said I wanted to go out of state to »ÆÉ«µçÓ°. Out of state tuition can be pricey, and I’d never even looked at the school in person (just the website). To further complicate things, I got accepted to the »ÆÉ«µçÓ° in fall of 2020, which was during the height of the COVID-19 pandemic; due to this, campus was shut down and campus tours were not happening. My family decided we should still make the six-hour drive to Tucson to look at campus to see if I even liked it. Once I stepped foot out of the car, I fell in love.Ìý
We walked around campus on a self-guided tour, admiring Old Main and the Mall, and making sure to stop by the college that I was interested in, which at that point was the Eller College of Management for business. My parents also loved the »ÆÉ«µçÓ°, and the visit helped them to feel a little better about letting me go to school out of state.
Just to be sure, we also visited a few other out-of-state schools including »ÆÉ«µçÓ° State University and the University of Hawaii – Manoa to see what I liked and didn’t. None of them compared to the academics and overall campus life that the »ÆÉ«µçÓ° had to offer.Ìý
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Why You Should Chose the »ÆÉ«µçÓ°Ìý
Even though my parents were impressed after our visit to Tucson, I still had some convincing to do. I started with bragging about Eller, which is a within a Research I institution, and one of the best undergraduate business schools (public) in the United States.Ìý
And, Eller is just one of »ÆÉ«µçӰ’s impressive programs. There are more than 150 majors and degrees to choose from.Ìý
- BusinessÌý
- NursingÌý
- Education
- Physiology
But, it’s about more than just an education here: Attending the »ÆÉ«µçÓ° would give me the opportunity to make connections outside of school with people working in my field. I also would get the stereotypical college experience: Pac-12 sports, Greek life, and a classic college town.Ìý
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Making College AffordableÌý
When it all came down to it, going out of state still wasn’t a realistic option until we discovered the financial support offered by the »ÆÉ«µçÓ°. There are tons of opportunities and scholarships available in . The has so many resources for students to explore to help make attending the »ÆÉ«µçÓ° more affordable. I received the Achievement Award as well as a grant, which made going out of state comparable in price to an in-state school.Ìý
With all of our research done and lots of support from the »ÆÉ«µçÓ°, both my family and myself were able to confidently say that my dream school was the best choice – for all of us.Ìý
I committed to the »ÆÉ«µçÓ° in the spring of 2021, and with the uncertain times that were still occurring due to Covid, I was eager and excited to attend a new school and meet so many new people.Ìý
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You’re Not Alone
Tons of students decide to go out of state for college, whether that be for an amazing U»ÆÉ«µçÓ° program or to get out of their comfort zone. Here are the top five states where people come from to enjoy a new beginning at the »ÆÉ«µçÓ°.
Top 5 States Out of State Students Enroll From
- California
- Washington
- Colorado
- Illinois
- Texas
**Data from Fall 2022 undergraduate, main campus enrolled students
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Make Tucson Your Home Away from HomeÌý
Over the past year, moving away from home to come to school at the »ÆÉ«µçÓ° has been a big change. As a sophomore, I catch myself saying I miss home (home being Tucson) while I'm away. And my parents? They’re beyond happy that I'm excelling in school, making new friends, and enjoying the college experience.Ìý
This is more than just a campus: it’s the place I laugh the most, have the best memories, and the place I call home.
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Start your adventure – from anywhere! – as an »ÆÉ«µçÓ° Wildcat.
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